I get this from one of my fren blog....it quite meaningful tho...haha... next 1 will be express by me lo....if got time to write...haha
Never fall in love with your best friend
You ask why? Since its like everything starts from being friends right? How it later on proceeds to good friends--->Best friend--->Bf/Gf--->Lovers. NOT!!! I'm sorry to burst your fairy tale bubble but let me tell you why,
First of, being a best friend means you know EVERYTHING, well almost anyway about the other person. confer? Yes. Also you'll be hanging out everyday at some point in time with that person. Isn't it kinda tiring to see the same face all the time?
Secondly, because you're both so used to being around each other, its almost like you don't really notice that person anymore,even though you hang out with each other almost all the time. So, that person WILL look the same to you, no matter what changes he/she did.
Third, because you are a best friend, you are expected of things, BECAUSE you are a best friend. Fail to do so, will result in accusation,suspision and Jealousy.
And, if YOUR best friend happen to have feelings for you, that person will totally lose the boundaries between best friend and god knows what. That best friend will get jealous if you spent too much time with your other friends, or if you missed hanging out one day with that person. So particular to the point, that he/she might even point out "Why are you avoiding eye contact with me?"